" sometimes when I look at you, I feel like I'm gazing at a distant star. It's dazzling, but the light is from tens of thousand of years ago. Maybe the star doesn't even exist anymore. Yet sometimes that light seens more real to me than anything."

your head will collapse 
when there’s nothing in it 
and you’ll ask yourself

where is my mind?

refridgerator:

i only accept apologies in cash

100worms:

if you hate me….. have you considered…. that I am beautiful? think it over

"We praise people for being “naturally” smart, too, “naturally” athletic, and etc. But studies continue to show, as they have for some time now, that it is generally healthier to praise schoolchildren for being hardworking, than for being naturally gifted. We know now that to emphasize a child’s inherent ability places pressure on that child to continue to be accidentally talented, which is something that is hard for anyone to control. When the children who are applauded for their natural skills fail, they are shown to take the failure very personally. After all, the process of their success has always seemed mysterious and basic and inseparable from the rest of their identity, so it must be they who are failing as whole people. When students are instead complimented and rewarded for their effort and improvement, they tend to not be so hard on themselves. When they fail, they reason, “Well, I’ll work harder next time.” They learn that they are capable of success, rather than constantly automatically deserving of it, and they learn simultaneously that they are bigger and more complex than their individual successes or failures."

Kate of Eat the Damn Cake, The Stupidity of “Natural” Beauty (via theimperfectascent)

I lost whole years of my life to self-loathing and self-sabotaging because I couldn’t sustain being ‘gifted’.  Don’t make the same mistake.

(via mossonhighheels)

vvhoppers:

i hate myself a lot but i get offended when other people do

"For almost 18 years you’re taught to sit down, shut up, and raise your hand. Then you have to decide what you’re going to do for the rest of your life."

Lavon Curtis (via coffeekaling)

"We will try to minimize the effect of each member’s absence to the group (BIGBANG) by managing the group flexibly later, when members enlist in order."

YGE (statement about BB going to the army - article, trans: shrimpljy)
RF